Managing the Curly Locks in Winter

Confession:  I straightened my hair.


After seven months of total Curly Girl, winter hit, and my curls went nuts! My old routines didn’t work. Something was wrong, and I couldn’t figure it out.

I decided to straighten my hair and see what it looked like.  I didn’t go crazy straightening it–just blow dried it, then some light use of the curling iron.  Very light.  I could have cried touching that hot iron to my hair.  I was worried it was all going to break off the instant I finished.

When I was done, I looked in the mirror with amazement.

It was long. Much longer than when I started. Freaky long–for me.

I was able to see the condition of the ends much better and they were split and dry.

I realized I needed to start pouring the moisture into the ends in the future and I needed to chop off the really bad part, which was about 1 1/2 inches.

I realized I don’t look as fun with straight hair.  My family was all like, “What did you to do to your curls?  I like your curls better!”


I assured them it was a one-off, and my curls would be coming right back at the next washing.  And here they are–along with my new fedora from Amazon.

Now, I admit, there were some things I liked about my straight hair.  Number one was that it was manageable.  I’d go to bed and wake up the next day with somewhat civilized locks.

It also dried faster.

Which brings me to my topic: Winter Curly Locks.

Winter is a challenge.  It takes 6 hours for my hair to dry by itself–5 if I speed it up with the hand diffuser.  Also, the air is drier out, and my curls go bad more quickly.  If I wear a knit cap, it’s like putting a cotton towel on them–sucks the moisture right out and goes to instant frizz.

That is why I purchased the fedora–hoping it would hold the locks down in the wind–without turning them into ash.  I have another one coming from Pendleton, the Zanna fedora, because I fell in love with this curly girl model wearing it, and I want to be her.

I mean, isn’t she cute?  An awesome ambassador for the CURL!


There are also some knit caps I found that have silk sewn into them.  They’re not cheap, but neither was the fedora from Pendleton.  I saw them at around $50-$70.  Who knows, though, you may find some at a craft fair for an even more reasonable price.

I came up with a solution to the dry ends and the lengthy drying time.  I now only wash my hair once a week, allowing it to mostly air dry with some diffusing at the roots.  I add a curl cream when it’s saturated.  I’ve been using Balmain Curl Cream (love the smell and bounce) and Kerastase Discipline Oleo-Curl Creme, 5.1 Ounce (I’m trying it out as a backup).  I use a little of the Sachjuan after it dries–if there is remaining frizz.

On the days I don’t wash, I do rinse off my ends in the shower and recondition them.  After I pat them dry with the t-shirt towel, but while they’re still very wet, I apply new curl cream.  The ends dry much faster than washing the whole head, and I’m usually pretty good and ready to go after an hour.

I think this is going to help grow out the length MUCH faster!  The enemy to long hair is dry ends.

If you have winter tips, please share them.






Balmain Curl Cream, How I Love Thee

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Oh, Balmain, how I love thee!  Let me count the ways!  

You’re not Sticky, Stinky, OR Smelly. You don’t leave my curls Crunchy, Crispy, Greasy, or Oily.  And, you don’t make my curls Dry or Frizzy!

If  you were a man, and I was single, I’d MARRY you!

Chapter One:

I met Balmain on a Norwegian vacation spring ’17.

Icelandair had lost my suitcase full of curly girl products somewhere between Seattle, the Arctic, Iceland, and Norway, and I had to go out shopping for replacements in the land of straight-haired, blonde, super tall and fit Viking Women.

A straight, blonde-haired Viking woman nice salesperson was thrilled to see a curly  haired human in real life, and she happily led me to their section for curly haired people.  It consisted of 3 products: Balmain Curl Cream, Sachajuan Styling Cream (for straight and curly), and a smoother.

I bought them all!

Chapter Two:

I fell in mad love with Balmain Curl Cream and Sachajuan Style Cream.


Chapter Three:

On returning back to the US, I realized my one tube of Balmain was almost empty. Ahhh!!!!  I looked on Amazon. No luck.  I looked at all the US online shops.  No luck.  I wrote Balmain and they gave me the name of their US division.  I ordered 3 tubes from them at about $40 / tube plus shipping.  Since then, I found it online at an English website called Beauty Expert, and they will often sell it at $31/ tube and free shipping with a minimum order.  I usually buy everything they have.

Chapter Four:

Balmain is the perfect lover–the kind that makes you believe in yourself and your curls.  It is described thusly:

Flexible, natural curls that last all day! 

Reveal the charm of every curl with the new Balmain Curl Cream, inspired by the expertise of the Balmain Hair backstage stylist team. The Curl Cream is invigorated with the signature Balmain Hair Couture fragrance. The lightweight formula activates and defines curls resulting in soft, bouncy and well-shaped waves. The signature Balmain Argan Elixir and Silk Proteins shield the hair against heat styling and protect strands from harmful UV rays. The Curl Cream helps fight frizz without flattening texture and defines spirals without making them crunchy. It hydrates the hair resulting in flexible, natural curls that last all day.

Chapter Five:

We lived  happily ever after…as long as I can find replacement Balmain!

The End.



Balmain Curl Cream Ingredients List:

Contains: 150 ml | 5.07 FL.OZ

Ingredients: Aqua, Cyclopentasiloxane, Cetearyl Alcohol, Glycerin, Polysorbate 60, Myristyl Alcohol, Polyquaternium-10,

Gossypium Herbaceum Seed Oil, Pvp, Polyquaternium-22, Aloe Barbadensis Leaf Juice, Pentaerythrityl Tetra-Di-T-Butyl

Hydroxyhydrocinnamate, Tocopheryl Acetate, Sodium Acetate, Sodium Chloride, Isopropyl Alcohol, Phenoxyethanol, Ethylhexylglycerin, Parfum